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Newsletter Issue November 2009 |

Mind Strength. Become Exceptional.
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A
Changed Mind...A Changed Life
Shaun Goodsell, MA
President and CEO of Mental Edge
People ask me everyday what it is that I
do. This question is hard to answer, not
because I am unclear on what I do, but
because trying to explain it in
"everyday" language seems to constantly
fall short of the powerful dynamic that
occurs in the course of a coaching
appointment and unfolds throughout the
coaching relationship. We are taught to
expect tangible results for the
resources we invest and I also truly
believe in tangible results. The
question is what is it that inspires,
motivates, and creates breakthrough
leading to the results that justify the
resources invested. I propose three
important principles that lead to
breakthrough and the possibility of a
changed life and the tangible results we
desire to see in those we love as well
as ourselves.
First, rapport needs to be built between
coach and client. For this to occur the
client needs to believe that the coach
has as detailed understanding of the
challenges the client faces. Without
this understanding the client still
feels alone in their challenge and
potentially disregards what the coach
may say because the client doesn't feel
understood. Stephen Covey in his book;
The Seven Habits of Highly Effective
People, states "Seek first to
understand, then to be understood".
Building rapport is a vital step to
being able to effectively work with a
client to create a "Breakthrough"
opportunity. This rapport is very
important in moving into the next phase
of breakthrough.
Next, begin to Challenge mistaken and
destructive thinking patterns. Most
people that are stuck live unaware of
the dynamics that go into why they
struggle. Because of this, identifying
these thinking patterns and effectively
challenging them is a key element of
opening up new ways of thinking for the
client. There is a fine line between a
thought and therefore a pattern of
thinking that is helpful verses one that
is destructive. In sports it could be
the difference between focusing on
results, which can be destructive, and
actions that lead to results, which is
helpful. Until our destructive thought
patterns are clarified and challenged we
may live unaware of how we are
contributing to a life that is less then
what we could experience. Challenging
these self-destructive thought patterns
requires trust from the client and an
ability to see for themselves what is
happening. Those individuals courageous
enough to look at these patterns are
ready for the next phase.
Lastly, clearly define new thoughts AND
patterns of thinking that lead to a
renewed understanding of life
experiences. When we are able to fuel
our brain with new ways of looking at
events, experiences, and upcoming
challenges, we empower ourselves with a
new courage and energy for these things
that in the past we either avoided, half
heartedly approached, and quite frankly
simply survived. The fact is that a
CHANGED MIND leads to a CHANGED LIFE.
This process of change requires a
thoughtful strategic approach from a
coach skilled in building rapport,
revealing and challenging destructive
thoughts and thinking patterns, and
building new life-changing thoughts and
patterns that lead to abundant energy,
courage, and internal passion to
actively pursue a new vision for life
and its possibilities.
At Mental Edge we desire to challenge
people to experience breakthrough in
their lives by establishing new thinking
skills and thought patterns leading to a
renewed energy for their lives and what
is possible. If you are ready to make
breakthrough changes in your life,
please call Dawn to take the first step
at 763.439.5246!
Until next time, here's to your
possibilities!
Shaun
A
Shining Example
Justin Johnson, Performance
Coach
You often hear us at Mental Edge
talk about how sports are a
great venue for young people to
develop life-skills and how
times of adversity have a way of
revealing one's character. One
athlete who has been a member of
the Mental Edge family for some
time recently came across an
especially adverse time.
Fortunately, this young man has
chosen a very empowering
perspective of his situation and
was willing to share his story
with us through a homework
assignment given by his teacher.
Below is a shining example of
what character and mental
toughness is in my mind.
On
Hold...
Sweat, tears, side aches, sore
muscles, early mornings, that
was what filled my summer. I
was training at seven in the
morning for two hours, and then
another two hours at night. I
was playing hockey four times a
week, all for one goal I've had
since I was a little kid. The
goal was to try making the
varsity hockey team this year.
Last year I took a very big step
in trying to reach my goal by
making the junior varsity team
for White Bear Lake. This was
the summer in which I had to
have the hardest work ethic I've
ever needed or had. There were
weeks when I played very well at
practice, and there were weeks
that made me want to quit
hockey. The spot for varsity
goalie was up for grabs because
two seniors had graduated last
year. The competition was tough
and everyone was fighting for
the two spots. It was something
that was going to go down to the
wire and no one knew who was
going to make it.
Throughout the summer I was
putting immense strain on my
body and muscles; little did I
know that this would result in a
big problem. When playing
goalie, the moves that are
needed to play the position put
a lot of pressure and strain on
the hips. At the start of the
summer there was a little pain
that I kind of just shrugged
off. As the summer was coming
to an end and I was finishing my
summer training for hockey the
pain in my right hip was
extremely bad.
I was meeting with a performance
coach throughout the summer and
at our last meeting I brought up
to him the pain I was having in
my hips. He suggested a doctor
from the University of Minnesota
whose son just had hip surgery.
The doctor diagnosed my hip
problem as an impingement and
right labrum tear. The doctor
said I needed surgery to fix the
problems I was having.
The first question I had was
"Can I play through it?" He
said that I would get to the
point if I played through it
that the pain would become
unbearable. This was crushing;
I worked so hard to reach a goal
of mine, just to have it taken
away by having hip surgery that
would put me out for the year.
The best word to describe the
kind of person I am is
resilient. The reason why I
love this word is because it
means to bounce back, that's
exactly what I plan to do.
After I'm fully recovered I plan
to be resilient and get back to
the skills I worked up to all
summer. My varsity goal has
been put on hold for a year but
I'll be back next year!
If this is not your mindset,
please call Dawn today at
763.439.5246 to become our next
"shining example"!
Justin
What
is Consistency?
Brady Greco, Performance Coach
A common performance concept
that is rarely taught but always
referred to by coaches is
playing a more consistent game.
You hear coaches all the time
say, "play with more consistency
day in and day out." There is
no problem if a coach makes this
statement and communicates to
the team about what needs to
take place in order to become
more consistent. However, the
majority of coaches fail to
explain in detail what
consistency even entails, making
it impossible for a player to
understand how to become more
consistent in their play.
Consistency can be described in
the sport's world as a level of
quality play over an extended
period of time. Every
competitive athlete has
experienced a game where they
performed very well. In turn,
every athlete has encountered
what it feels like to perform
poorly, making the concept of
consistency very tricky. Here
is a checklist of five keys to
focus on as an athlete that will
help maintain consistency
throughout your personal journey
as an athlete:
1) Awareness: Reflect on your
performance and determine what
areas you did well in and what
areas you need to improve upon.
2) Good Habits: Practice good
habits throughout the athletic
season. This means staying
disciplined and remembering to
do the 'little' things both on
and off the athletic field or
arena.
3) Pre-game Routine: For an
athlete to become mentally
prepared for a game/practice,
they must take the proper
procedures. This means an
athlete must find a comfortable
and effective personal routine
they go through on days of
games/practice. Establishing a
good pre-game routine will
enable an athlete to be prepared
mentally which will create a
better chance of optimal
performance. Don't be afraid to
'mess around' with your routine
if you feel something is not
working.
4) Imagery: Imagine yourself
accomplishing the task at hand.
Picture yourself already playing
the game and making the right
plays in every situation.
5) Positive Self-Talk: Don't be
afraid to talk to yourself.
Tell yourself 'I am the best, I
am the best'. This will create
encouraging thoughts to flow
through your mind to remain
positive.
At the Mental Edge, we can teach
you mental toughness skill like
these to empower you on your
journey as an athlete, simpy
call Dawn to start at
763.439.5246.
Brady
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