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MENTAL EDGE NEWS                        July 2009

Guaranteed to improve the quality of your individual experience!

90-Day
 
Parent
Challenge

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The Mental Edge invites you to participate in our 90-day Parenting Challenge. This challenge is intended to help you cultivate a High Impact relationship with your son or daughter.

As I tell all parents participating in our High Impact Parenting Series, asking quality questions opens up the possibility of a completely different kind of interaction with your child. With that in mind, you will be given a series of High Impact Questions for the next 90 days (30 days at a time) designed to open a door of understanding into your child's life that can give you a brand new perspective on who your child is and how you might adjust your parenting style to powerfully influence them.

To accept the 90-Day Challenge please click here:

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One Client's Story...
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The Man Who Made Me
a Man


 
Throughout my life, I have had a multitude of people help make me the person I am today. Ordinarily these people consist of friends, family, or teachers. However, the person that has had the greatest influence on the man I am today is a man named Shaun Goodsell. Shaun has helped me change my negative aspects to positive attributes, my doubt in religion to faith in God, and the unimaginable to determination.

Shaun and I first became acquainted in February of my sophomore year. The overall reason for our uniting was due to my struggle with my passion, hockey. My sophomore season had been a continuous mental struggle, which affected the amount of my playing time. After meeting several times, Shaun was able to help me become more patient and aware of what I need to do to change my mentality. His tips not only benefited my game, but also taught me how to be a better person through respect, honesty, and perseverance. Besides our usual conversations of the typical criteria, Shaun and I talked about faith. I told him I had confusion about God and my faith and he told me that the beauty all around in nature, the small things in life, and everyday miracles has to have been by a higher power. From that point on I had increased my praying from every so often to each night and gained an appreciation for the little things in life.

Shaun listens to what I have to say like there is nothing else that he is concerned with but me. I have never second-guessed the advice I receive from Shaun and implementing it in my life.

Shaun is always encouraging me. When I think something cannot be overtaken, I am told "Andy you have all the gifts and talents I wish I had". As always, his words make me ready for any obstacle. After hearing this, I began thinking that with my talents it is not only my duty to not just sit around and waste what could benefit me athletically and academically, but through hard work other's dreams could be fulfilled through me as well. His words inspire me to continue to drive and work for a starting spot on the team. I truly have been blessed to know someone who has taught me patience, increased my determination, and helped me along my journey of faith. Without a doubt I know Shaun has helped shape me into the person I am today. With his guidance and optimism, I have been able to overcome any unexpected obstacle. Every challenge has been a test and has increased my drive and will to succeed. My next test is college and I know with everything Shaun has taught me this will be an obstacle I am well prepared for.
 
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We just have to give a special "Shout Out" for Dr. Jensen and his team!  Wow, we have never had such an awesome dental experience (and you should know, Dawn is the biggest "Dentistry Chicken" ever).  We highly recommend Smile Design Dentistry for your entire family!

Shaun and Dawn
 
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Hockey Group Coaching begins July 6th
 

 
Many young people seem to be struggling to find the enjoyment and personal fulfillment that once drove their desire to play hockey. This trend has to stop!

For this reason, the Mental Edge announces GROUP COACHING, an innovative peer-to-peer experience that challenges as well as trains athletes in small groups to acquire new levels of personal experience and fulfillment. Leveraging over twenty years of experience working with young athletes we will equip them with the tools to create and overcome anything that stands in their way to personal satisfaction and fulfillment.  This learning experience will help each young player overcome the many challenges that inhibit them from performing according to their skill level as well as work through common social challenges that negatively impact their experience.

We believe the application of the tools learned through the group experience reaches far beyond the athletic realm and could possibly be the one thing missing to empower young athletes to develop the skills to overcome and thrive in any situation.

***INTRODUCTORY RATE IS ONLY $99/MONTH***
 
(Includes unlimited group coaching monthly. 
3 month minimum registration required)
 

 
Group Coaching begins July 6, 2009.
Monday & Wednesday 7:30 pm - 9:00 pm
Tuesday & Thursday  11:00 am - 12:30 pm
Mental Edge Office inside Velocity Sports in Champlin, MN
 

 
Call Dawn today at 763 439 5246  to reserve your seat!
 
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 Shaun Goodsell
Who's Got Your Back?

 
Shaun Goodsell, MA
Senior Performance Coach
 
Shaun@MentalEdgeNow.com

 
What is truly going to make a lifelong impact on the lives of kids? I would understand if you responded by saying; having a winning season, having fun with friends, and progressing as a player. What the best bet is OTHER KIDS! The quality of experience kids seem to have is dictated by the quality of interactions that take place not only while they are together but also when they are apart. In my mind the expectations of how kids interact and treat each other needs to be raised.

Best-selling author, Keith Ferrazzi, in his book titled Who's Got Your Back?, boldly challenges his reader to purposely and intentionally cultivate deep intimate "lifeline" relationships. On the surface his challenge may seem a bit tired and somewhat idealistic. However, we appear to be paying the price from the lack of these relationships all over the place. Now more then ever kids are struggling to work cooperatively, live peacefully, and mature. Families are struggling to stay connected and marriages are deteriorating at a record rate. How can a youth sports experience actually contribute proactively to changing these disturbing realities? Unless team experiences improve a whole lot they will do little to change the direction of these trends. For most young people their team experience never goes beyond simply showing up at tournaments, games and practices and going through the physical motions without much personal development beyond this.

It is time we start teaching and challenging our kids to build "lifeline" relationships with their teammates and peers. What led me to think about this is over twenty years ago I witnessed kids building relationships with one another in a way that inspired me and brought me to tears on many occasions. Before coming together many of these kids didn't know each other and would not have given each other the time of day in school.  All they needed was to be taught. We can teach kids the most complicated math and science formulas out there, we have sixteen year olds competing in front of millions of people for record contracts on American Idol, and we have hundreds of kids training to excel in their sport. Why can't we challenge kids to relate to one another with greater vulnerability, kindness, accountability, and honesty? These four vital principles make up the components of  "lifeline" relationships. Unfortunately, we have a shortage of all four on most teams today. I guess it would also be safe to say we have a shortage of these in society today. I recently sat with another young person that is quitting a sport because the "Team Chemistry" that is needed to complete the experience never came about, and therefore, quitting becomes not only easy, but also desirable. The value of participation has simply vanished for many.

There is no doubt in my mind that kids are starving for not only a sport experience, but a profound relationship experience. We as a society invest thousands of dollars in the sport part of the experience, which in my mind is the least important. We need to be intentional about teaching kids to practice the four principles outlined earlier. Practicing these this will leave more kids with not only enhanced sport skills but also skills to cultivate the types of relationships that they could build a life on.

 

Shaun
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Join Shaun for this month's F.R.E.E. call:
"Who's Got Your Back?"
 
July 21st at 8:00 pm Central

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For more information regarding this topic or to schedule your F.R.E.E. 30-minute performance consultation with Shaun, please call Dawn today at 763 439 5246.
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 Brady Greco
 
Training Control Variables
 

Brady Greco, BA, Performance Coach
Brady@MentalEdgeNow.com

 

Training season is upon us and now is the time when athletes begin to focus on all of the essential skills needed to improve their overall game.  There will always be constant debate surrounding the most innovative or best training facilities, programs, and regiments.  However, whether you train at an Olympic training facility or at your local high school's gym, it is extremely important to focus only on the elements you have control over.  Many times athletes will worry about things out of their control, leading them to failure and excuse making.  The hard work you invest in the summer is tough and painful, but hopefully rewarding.  Every workout directly correlates with the amount of success you will see by the end of your training program.  Because your workouts are limited, it is vital that you get everything out of them as possible.  This may seem like an elementary concept to grasp; however, there are three variables you have complete control over that can make or break your personal training goals.

Nutrition is the first variable.  Nutrition is an all too often overlooked variable that can easily help or hinder your development throughout the course of your training.  Eating the proper foods pre- and post -workout is essential for allowing your body to endure a tough workout, as well as replenishing your body when your training session is complete. In order to build muscle and become stronger and faster, you must break down your muscle first.  There is a fifteen to twenty minute window immediately following a workout where a protein bar or shake will restore the broken muscle fibers you experienced during your workout.  Many people believe that if you work out really hard, you can basically eat whatever you want.  This is the quickest way to waste a workout.  During a workout, you are constantly breaking and tearing little muscle fibers within your body.  For your muscles to become stronger, protein will embed itself in these voids and lead to more muscle growth.

The second important factor for attaining your training goals is rest.  It is crucial your body and mind get the proper amount of recovery time to allow yourself optimal performance during your workouts.  Training is both physically and mentally draining.  By allowing for the appropriate amount of rest, your body will be able to fully recover and your mind will become clear and focused.  Be aware of what you categorize as rest.  Many times summer activities can be a workout in themselves.  In these cases, I stress the importance of knowing when to partake and when to pass.  There is a fine line between too much and too little rest because too much rest will result in a decline in your progression.

Positive thinking is the last element you must possess to enable a successful training regiment.  Athletes can train ten hours a day; but if they have a negative attitude, they will see very little or no improvement.  Nutrition and rest play huge roles in determining the outcome of your attitude.  If you engage in a proper diet and get the right amount of rest, your mind will be more clear and focused.  This will give you the ability to have a more positive attitude through the duration of your workout.  If negativity creeps in, it is key you acknowledge the negative thought and then counter that thought with a positive reaffirming statement.  Being able to train your thinking is as important as training your muscles. This is not to say you won't have your bad days of training, but by maintaining a healthy diet along with proper rest and a positive attitude, your good days will drastically overshadow your bad days.  By controlling these three variables you are enabling yourself to have a successful summer of training.
 
If you are an athlete in the midst of training and need help controlling your three variables, contact Brady today.


 
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Training Control Variables

 
July 23rd at 8:00 pm Central

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For more information on this topic or to schedule your F.R.E.E. 30-minute performance consultation with Brady, please call Dawn today at 763 439 5246.
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EXPERTS AGREE one’s mental approach can separate the ordinary achiever from the exceptional one. A positive mental approach is also strongly correlated with those individuals who derive a positive experience from their participation in athletic competition. However, the skills required to achieve individual goals are often overlooked because the primary focus for development is concentrated more on physical attributes than mental approach. At Mental Edge, our mission is to increase personal achievement and elevate the experience of individuals through mentoring and the teaching of competencies necessary to achieve a positive experience, on and
off the field of play. We believe personal satisfaction is fundamental to participation in sports ... and in life.

 
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